
Offending the Flesh: Why True Transformation Requires Revelation, Not Behavior Modification
Spiritual growth is not measured by what you suppress but by what you have been delivered from.
The natural, carnal mind is an enemy of divine revelation. Every time God speaks beyond the boundary of human religious understanding, the flesh is offended — and that offense is not a sign of error but a sign of growth. The only path to genuine transformation is not the suppression of sin through religious effort but the starvation of the flesh through feeding the spirit.
Teaching Overview
- Divine wisdom is a hidden mystery beyond what is written — it requires walking in the Spirit to decode, and it consistently offends the carnal mind.
- Every time Jesus spoke in the language of revelation, He offended the religious — those who received it clung to life, and those who did not were offended by both His words and His person.
- True believers are not suppressing sin — they have been delivered from it; the appeal of sin dies as a result of the Holy Spirit's inner work, not human religious effort.
- Holiness is not moral achievement — it is God's act of setting apart; righteousness belongs to Jesus alone, and it is His righteousness, not ours, that qualifies us before God.
- The flesh cannot be murdered into submission — it dies only when it is starved; feeding the spirit is the only path out of sin, and to be carnally minded is death while to be spiritually minded is life.
Key Distinctions
| Carnal Mindedness | Spiritual Mindedness | |
|---|---|---|
| What it is | The mind governed by the flesh and its appetites | The mind governed by the Spirit of God |
| Result | Death — spiritual and ultimate | Life — Romans 8:6 |
| Relationship to sin | Feeds and amplifies sin | Starves and displaces sin |
| Relationship to revelation | Offended by divine truth | Able to receive and decode divine mystery |
| How it changes | Cannot be modified by behavior or willpower | Transformed by feeding on the Word and walking in the Spirit |
| Letter of Scripture | Revelation of Scripture | |
|---|---|---|
| What it is | The basic written interpretation of what is recorded | The Spirit's living disclosure of what is written — including hidden mystery not in written form |
| Who can access it | Anyone who can read | Those who walk in the Spirit of God |
| Basis for debate | Most theological arguments are fought from this ground | Rarely defended in argument — it is received, not argued |
| Effect on the hearer | Can be understood naturally | Offends the carnal mind and provokes religious opposition |
| Suppressing Sin | Deliverance from Sin | |
|---|---|---|
| What it is | Willful restraint of sinful behavior through effort and discipline | A nature-change produced by the Holy Spirit from within |
| Source | The flesh straining against itself | The grace of God working through the inner man |
| Sustainability | Temporary — always reverts when pressure or discipline lapses | Permanent — the attraction and appeal of sin simply dies |
| Sign of it | Constant internal struggle; sin remains present but held back | Sin is no longer enticing, attractive, or relevant |
| Scriptural basis | "Those who are in Christ sin not" — not they restrain sin | The flesh dies as the spirit is fed — Galatians 5 |
| Holiness | Righteousness | |
|---|---|---|
| What it is | Being set apart by God — a positional declaration | The moral quality of being right before God |
| Who produces it | God alone — "I have set you apart" | Jesus Christ — He is our righteousness |
| Human contribution | None — there is nothing you can do to be holy | None — "all your works are filthy rags" |
| Common misunderstanding | Confused with good behavior or moral purity | Confused with personal virtue or law-keeping |
| Scriptural illustration | Israel — declared holy while still sinners | The rich young ruler — Jesus rejects the label "good" for any human |
| Fasting (Temporary) | Living a Fasted Life (Permanent) | |
|---|---|---|
| Duration | A set period — 21 days, 40 days | A continuous, ongoing posture of the spirit |
| Effect on the flesh | Temporary restraint — reverts after the fast ends | Ongoing starvation of the flesh through sustained spiritual feeding |
| Basis | Often tradition-driven or season-driven | Spirit-led — fasting when led, feeding the spirit always |
| Long-term result | No lasting change if the spirit is not simultaneously fed | Nature-change — the flesh progressively loses its hold |
| Danger of misuse | Using fasting as a substitute for genuine spiritual transformation | None — this is the biblical model |
| Self-Will | Dying to Self | |
|---|---|---|
| What it is | The condition of the flesh being alive and active — wanting, striving, resisting | The condition in which the flesh ceases to govern — it has been starved, not murdered |
| Scriptural picture | Romans 7:15 — "What I want to do I do not do, but what I hate, I do" | Paul: "I die daily" — watching the flesh die through sustained starvation |
| Control | As long as you are the one who is wanting, you are not in control | When the spirit governs, the flesh no longer drives behavior |
| How it is resolved | Cannot be resolved by willpower or religious effort | Resolved by feeding the spirit — "walk in the Spirit and you will not fulfill the lust of the flesh" |
| Good Behavior | Salvation Through Grace | |
|---|---|---|
| What qualifies you before God | Nothing — "all your works are filthy rags" | Jesus's righteousness — not your own |
| What God requires | Belief on the Lord Jesus Christ | Faith — not moral performance |
| The religious error | Using strength and discipline to please God | Trusting in human virtue as a basis for acceptance |
| Outcome if relied upon | Appearing perfect to men while far from God | Genuine transformation produced by the Holy Spirit |
| Scriptural warning | "There is none that is good" — Jesus to the rich young ruler | "If the law ought to be kept, then Jesus died for nothing" |
The Foundation of Revelation
- Not all knowledge within the Kingdom is equally necessary — some understanding benefits spiritual growth and ministry without being a requirement for salvation.
- Knowing Jesus is sufficient to know the love of God; additional revelation serves the work of God but does not replace the foundation of Christ.
- The secret things belong to God, but what is revealed belongs to His people and to their children forever.
"You don't need to know everything in order for you to experience salvation or experience the presence of God. But if you want to see the manifest power of God, it is necessary."
Divine Wisdom Beyond What Is Written
- First Corinthians 2:6 distinguishes between the wisdom of this age — which comes to nothing — and the hidden wisdom of God ordained before the world began.
- There is a divine wisdom for which there is no written record; it is a mystery that requires walking in the Spirit to decode.
- Basic scriptural interpretation and the revelation of scripture are not the same thing — most theological arguments are waged from the letter alone, not from revelation.
"There is divine wisdom that was preordained, meaning there is no record of it. It is a mystery that will take somebody to walk in the spirit of God in order to decode it. It will take divine revelation for your eyes to open and to say, I never knew this is possible."
The Offense of Heavenly Language
- When Jesus declared Himself the bread that came down from heaven, His hearers were offended because they interpreted Him through natural knowledge alone — they knew Joseph as His father and could not reconcile His claims with what they saw.
- Every statement Jesus made in John 6 — that He came from heaven, that He was God, that believing in Him produces eternal life, that His flesh must be eaten and His blood drunk — compounded the offense because each declaration required spiritual understanding to receive.
- Those who received His revelation clung to life; those who did not were offended not merely by His words but by His person.
"If you have never been offended by God's word, you're not growing."
"Every time Jesus spoke of revelation He offended people. Every time the Lord Jesus spoke heavenly language he offended people."
The Carnal Mind Versus the Spirit
- The nature of sin is shared between the devil and man through Adam — this is why the carnal mind more readily receives what demons declare than what God reveals.
- To be carnally minded is death; to be spiritually minded is life — Romans 8:6 is not metaphorical but describes the literal spiritual trajectory of what a person feeds.
- The reason sin abounds in many lives is not absence of effort but absence of spiritual feeding; the carnal mind is kept alive by what it consumes.
"To be carnally minded is death. To be spiritually minded is life."
Suppression Is Not Deliverance
- The Bible does not say those in Christ keep themselves from sin — it says they do not sin; it is a nature, not a discipline.
- Suppression keeps the flesh alive through willpower; deliverance is the Holy Spirit removing the attraction and appeal of sin from within.
- Everything produced by the flesh is sin and failure — it will never bring a person close to God; religious effort to please God through behavior is itself an expression of the flesh.
"Many of you are suppressing sin, but you have not been delivered from sin."
"The appeal of sin simply dies. That it doesn't matter if you present sin to me. I don't see the point of engaging in it. It is no longer attractive to me. It is no longer pleasing to me. It is no longer enticing to me. I can live without it."
Holiness, Righteousness, and the Failure of the Law
- Holiness is not a moral achievement — it is God's sovereign act of setting apart; Israel was declared a holy nation while all its members were sinners.
- There is none that is good before God — Jesus affirmed this to the rich young ruler, and Paul confirms it: all our works are filthy rags.
- Striving to keep the law does not produce righteousness — it makes the flesh alive; the law no longer applies to those who have died to it, and Jesus is our righteousness, not our own virtue.
"There is nothing you can do to be holy. Nothing. Holiness has nothing to do with sin."
"This is why being a good person counts for nothing. You be a good person and you will see hell not heaven. Because you are not saved because of your goodness. I am not saved because of my righteousness. We are saved because of His righteousness."
Starving the Flesh, Feeding the Spirit
- Romans 7:15 reveals the condition of self-will: as long as the person is the one who is wanting — wanting to do right, straining not to do wrong — the flesh is alive and in control.
- The Bible does not instruct believers to murder the flesh — it says let it die; the flesh is starved by redirecting attention to God and feeding the spirit man on the Word.
- Fasting temporarily restrains the flesh but cannot transform it — only living a fasted life, in which the spirit is consistently fed, produces lasting nature-change.
"The Bible says die to the flesh. It doesn't say murder the flesh. Many of you are trying to murder the flesh. You are trying to take out the flesh. You are trying to assassinate the flesh. Yet the flesh is supposed to die on its own."
"How do you kill the flesh? You starve it. Whatever is not fed dies. You are supposed to feed another thing and ignore the flesh."
Key Definitions
Holiness — God's act of setting a person or people apart for Himself; it is not a moral condition produced by human behavior but a positional declaration made by God alone.
Righteousness — The moral standing before God that qualifies a person for His presence; belongs to Jesus Christ alone and is imputed to the believer through faith, not earned through personal conduct.
Revelation — The Spirit's living disclosure of divine mystery that transcends what is written; it is the hidden wisdom of God ordained before the world began, accessible only to those who walk in the Spirit.
Suppression of sin — The willful restraint of sinful behavior through human effort and discipline; it keeps the flesh alive rather than delivering from sin, and always reverts when the effort lapses.
Deliverance from sin — The inner work of the Holy Spirit that removes the attraction, enticing power, and appeal of sin from within; the person does not restrain sin — they simply no longer want it.
A fasted life — A continuous posture of spiritual feeding and flesh-starvation that replaces temporary, periodic fasting; the ongoing state in which the spirit governs and the flesh progressively loses its hold.
Key Takeaways
- Divine revelation consistently offends the carnal mind — offense at a hard saying is not a sign that the teaching is wrong; it is a sign that the flesh is still alive and threatened by truth it cannot contain.
- Suppression and deliverance are not the same thing — many who believe they have overcome sin have only restrained it; true deliverance is a nature-change in which sin loses its appeal entirely.
- Holiness and righteousness are not produced by human effort — confusing moral behavior with holiness or righteousness places a person under the law and makes the cross of no effect.
- The flesh cannot be overcome by confronting it — only by starving it — feeding the spirit is the only strategy Scripture prescribes for defeating sin; walking in the Spirit is the mechanism, not willpower or religious discipline.
- Living a fasted life, not periodic fasting alone, is the biblical model — temporary fasts produce temporary results; only a sustained posture of spiritual feeding produces permanent transformation.
Reflection Questions
- When you last encountered a hard teaching from God's Word that offended you — did you receive it or dismiss it? What does your response reveal about the current state of your flesh?
- Are you suppressing sin through willpower and discipline, or have you genuinely been delivered from its attraction? What is the honest difference between those two in your daily life?
- What are you feeding most consistently — your spirit or your flesh? What does your daily attention, consumption, and focus actually tell you about which one is being nourished?
- In what areas of your life are you still trying to please God through good behavior or religious effort rather than through simple belief and the work of the Holy Spirit? What would it look like to stop striving and trust His grace?
- If the flesh dies only when it is starved and not murdered — what specific thing are you currently feeding that is keeping the flesh alive, and what would it mean to redirect that attention toward God this week?
Scripture References
- John 3:12
- 1 Corinthians 2:6 — "Howbeit we speak wisdom among them that are perfect: yet not the wisdom of this world, nor of the princes of this world, that come to nought: But we speak the wisdom of God in a mystery, even the hidden wisdom, which God ordained before the world unto our glory." (KJV)
- Numbers 12:6-8 — "And he said, Hear now my words: If there be a prophet among you, I the LORD will make myself known unto him in a vision, and will speak unto him in a dream. My servant Moses is not so, who is faithful in all mine house. With him will I speak mouth to mouth, even apparently, and not in dark speeches; and the similitude of the LORD shall he behold: wherefore then were ye not afraid to speak against my servant Moses?" (KJV)
- Exodus 33
- John 6:41-48 — "The Jews then murmured at him, because he said, I am the bread which came down from heaven. And they said, Is not this Jesus, the son of Joseph, whose father and mother we know? how is it then that he saith, I came down from heaven? Jesus therefore answered and said unto them, Murmur not among yourselves. No man can come to me, except the Father which hath sent me draw him: and I will raise him up at the last day. It is written in the prophets, And they shall all be taught of God. Every man therefore that hath heard, and hath learned of the Father, cometh unto me. Not that any man hath seen the Father, save he which is of God, he hath seen the Father. Verily, verily, I say unto you, He that believeth on me hath everlasting life. I am that bread of life." (KJV)
- John 6:52-56 — "The Jews therefore strove among themselves, saying, How can this man give us his flesh to eat? Then Jesus said unto them, Verily, verily, I say unto you, Except ye eat the flesh of the Son of man, and drink his blood, ye have no life in you. Whoso eateth my flesh, and drinketh my blood, hath eternal life; and I will raise him up at the last day. For my flesh is meat indeed, and my blood is drink indeed. He that eateth my flesh, and drinketh my blood, dwelleth in me, and I in him." (KJV)
- John 6:59-62 — "These things said he in the synagogue, as he taught in Capernaum. Many therefore of his disciples, when they had heard this, said, This is an hard saying; who can hear it? When Jesus knew in himself that his disciples murmured at it, he said unto them, Doth this offend you? What and if ye shall see the Son of man ascend up where he was before?" (KJV)
- Luke 4
- John 8
- Matthew 6
- Romans 7:15 — "For that which I do I allow not: for what I would, that do I not; but what I hate, that do I." (KJV)
- Romans 8:6 — "For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace." (KJV)
- Galatians 2:21
Golden Nuggets
"If you have never been offended by God's word, you're not growing."
"Every time Jesus spoke of revelation He offended people. Every time the Lord Jesus spoke heavenly language he offended people."
"Many of you are suppressing sin, but you have not been delivered from sin."
"The Bible says die to the flesh. It doesn't say murder the flesh. Many of you are trying to murder the flesh. You are trying to take out the flesh. You are trying to assassinate the flesh. Yet the flesh is supposed to die on its own."
"How do you kill the flesh? You starve it. Whatever is not fed dies. You are supposed to feed another thing and ignore the flesh."
"There is nothing you can do to be holy. Nothing. Holiness has nothing to do with sin."
"Being a good person counts for nothing. You be a good person and you will see hell not heaven. Because you are not saved because of your goodness. We are saved because of His righteousness."
"There is divine wisdom that was preordained, meaning there is no record of it. It is a mystery that will take somebody to walk in the spirit of God in order to decode it."
"Walk in the spirit and you will not fulfill the lust of the flesh."
"To be carnally minded is death. To be spiritually minded is life."
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